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Austin;
I need your advice. I am 45, divorced, and recently met a man that I like alot. After six terrific dates, I chose (for the first time in five years) to become physically intimate with him. We went out Friday for an evening on the town, and then returned to his place to share the night together. I felt very much in love, and things couldn't have gone more perfect.
We decided to spend another night together the following weekend, this time at my place. But unfortunately, things didn't go as well the second time around. To put it bluntly, this man that I love with all my heart had erection problems. I felt terrible for him, and he was obviously embarassed. He ended up saying "well, I've been thinking about using Viagra or something...but right now I should probably just leave...."
He did leave. And that was a week ago. We haven't spoken since, and I feel terrible. Was it me? Is it normal for a man still in his thirties (he's 39) to have "e.d.?" Should I call him and tell him that it's okay? I feel terrible about this, and I really do care for him. What should I do?
Kimberly, Alexandria, VA
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